An Agenda

Apologies for the lack of a post in over a month, especially after I announced the return of a new series.  Doesn’t look too good for its return, does it?  I promise you though, I still have plans of continuing it.  The month of December was extremely busy with preparing for Christmas and New Year gatherings with family; and all the varying doctor appointments I had during that month.  I’m healthy in case you wondered.  That has prevented me from actually sitting down and taking screenshots from Nessus in Destiny 2, I do plan to fix that hopefully next week sometime and actually get that series going.  It’s a shame Titan didn’t win the poll because I have a bunch from there that are ready to go.

In that time, I really haven’t had the chance to play too many games in general.  I have played a little of Destiny 2 as their winter event, The Dawning, has been active for the past few weeks.  It has been fun giving “gifts” to the various members of the Vanguard and other vendors and whatnot.  It has also been fun throwing snowballs at Dregs…not that I would do that because that is mean.  Dregs are people too…sort of.  It will be ending in a few days and I’m not sure if I’ll get the chance to try out Mayhem or not.  If I don’t, I hope it comes back so I can try it out then.  I thought Mayhem back in D1 was a lot of fun so I’m certain I can assume I would enjoy it in D2 as well. Continue reading


Nearing 200

Well hey, would you look at this.  It’s a post from me on here, it’s only been about three months.  It has also been a while since I could not think of a fancy title for a post here.  While sitting here trying to think of a title though, I noticed I was only five…well, now four with this one, posts away from 200 on here.  That said, if you have been following along with my ramblings from my previous BlogSpot destination, or have just stumbled upon this because I posted a cool screenshot; thank you.  Whether it be my posts here, the ones I form at Frantic Talks, my 140 (soon to be 280!) character ramblings on Twitter, or the junk I post on my personal Facebook page (sorry, you can’t have the link to that); it never really crosses my mind of who or how many actually read the things I post.  I know, it sounds like I’m basically saying that I think no one cares what I have to say, but that is not the case.  I know certain people do, it’s just never something I actively think about when typing letters in a proper order to form words.  Like right now, even though I’m talking about it like a metaphorical elephant in the room.

Anyways, with that babbling done and out of the way.  It’s been a while since I’ve actually talked about the person behind the online moniker.  Why is that?  Well to be completely honest, I hate talking about myself.  I’m totally that awkward person that when they are asked how they have been doing I’m just like “Ok, how about you?” and then just never mention anything else about myself unless absolutely necessary.   Granted, talking about myself is basically what I’m doing when I give a recap of what I’ve been doing or the reasons why I have been enjoying something lately.  The way that works in my brain though is I consider it more so sharing my interests with others.  It has been almost three years since I have briefly discussed how I want to go about the college life.  Since that post was published to the eternity that is the internet, my plans have changed.  Continue reading

Gaming and Socializing

With almost three months since my last post on here, a decent amount of stuff has happened.  Most of it has been gaming related, of which I will discuss and it will probably be most of this post.  Lately though, I have also been giving some thought about the social aspect of gaming and how my viewpoint of that has changed recently.  There might be some deep, dark, personal secrets about me you may find out through this…ok, so probably not but you might get to find out more about the person behind these words.

The past few years I have been gradually changing my outlook on gaming from less about just playing a game, to more so experiencing it.  So what do I mean by experiencing a game?  Broadly speaking, I mean truly sitting down and enjoying a game for what it is.  Whether it be a storyline, gameplay, the music, or even those times you absolutely wreck people in PvP.  Even playing a tabletop game with friends, such as D&D, Magic, or even Cards Against Humanity.  Specifically what I’m talking about right now though, are the social experiences that games can provide.

Personally, I think Destiny was a great game for me to realize that gaming can be more than just about getting together with a group of friends to shoot some aliens in the face.  I cannot count how many hours I’ve spent just simply sitting in orbit or messing around in the Tower talking to a group of friends as we’re checking out the gear we just got from finishing a raid.  These are people that have real lives and families, not just some random I met via matchmaking.  It certainly makes playing an online game feel more personable when you can ask someone how their day at work was. Continue reading

The House That REZO Built

Considering I normally throw up a link to these posts on Twitter, and I’ve gained quite a few new followers lately and I’m sure this post will draw some of them this way.  Let me start off by saying, if you are just stumbling across this then hello and welcome to my Online Discussion Place!  Or I guess you could call it a blog, I wanted to sneak that in here somewhere since my good friend FranticJ3 tweeted that the other day.  Here, I usually try to strategically place words into paragraph format and then do the same with those paragraphs in hopes to create a post that makes sense to you all.  What will you find here?  Most of the times it will be gaming related, not because I don’t want to share things that happen in my world, I’ve done that a time or two.  It’s mostly because my personal life is boring for the most part and I have so much more to talk about when it comes to games and other junk related to them.  You’ll also occasionally see some screenshots I take via the Xbox One’s built in feature or my capture card.  Somewhere around here I have a few YouTube videos posted.  Plus, if you’re a sports fan (especially that of the college football variety) then you’ll want to stick around (or check out past seasons) of my Bowl Bound series.

That’s what normally goes on here!  Again, if you’re just stopping by for the first time, thank you!  If you’re one of the people who stops by every so often when you see I posted up something new, thank you as well!  I appreciate both more than I can probably express in the words I type here.  I’m going to do the obligatory promoting here before I lose your attention to my meaningless babble that will…oh god, I’m doing it again.  Anyways, my general banter goes here; if you want to see the more serious side I have when it comes to gaming related topics.  No, seriously.  I do have one.  Drop by the Frantic Talks site and check out what we have over there.  Which includes a weekly podcast, and we do post other things there too.  We’ve been busy and haven’t had a whole lot of time to dedicate to writing new articles for a little bit.  We’re changing that though.  We’re also on Twitter, because who isn’t? Continue reading

Community, What Is It to Me?

One word that can have many meanings to different people.  What makes that word special for me?  Many things.  Community is part of my (hopefully) future career, it’s part of my enjoyment for a game, it’s more than just a gathering place for fans of say, the same game; and quite frankly, it’s part of my life.  Why do I say life?  I honestly do not know what I would be doing had I not signed up for my first online community.  In fact, if it wasn’t for me stepping out of my comfort zone about four years ago and applying to become a writer at Inside View Gaming, then eventually working my way up to be their community manager; I highly doubt I would even be typing this post up today.

So why are we here?  Good question, Grif!  Oh…never mind.  Lately (read: since two months ago) I have been taking more of an interest in the community side of games.  You could say it’s almost unhealthy (probably not, but whatever)  that I’ve been so interested with them.  I find it truly amazing that people from around the world, and of all (as the saying goes…) “walks of life” can come together and discuss something they enjoy.  Of course, since this is the internet the majority of the time people spend within a community is just insulting their intelligence or calling them names that should not be repeated in front of impressionable youth.  To be fair though, not everyone is like this within an online community; recently I’ve seen a lot of the nicer people coming forward and being more involved.  Which is great in my mind.

The first online community I ever signed up for was the forums, and at the end of this month I will have been a member for nine years.  Every year I always think that it is crazy that I’ll have been there for “x” amount of years, but it really is hard to believe I’ll have been a member of one website for that long.  Considering I was only 14 when I first signed up, a lot of my posts were very cringe worthy…I’m surprised I was only banned once honestly after reading some of them.

Continue reading

The Opinion is Yours

As I type this I am under the impression that my title will most likely have nothing to do with the actual content of the post.  If you’ve been reading my posts since the early days (the days of Blogger that is) you will know that is quite a common occurrence for me.  Anyways, this post will be made more out of frustration than previous rage filled rants I have done before…which thinking back it might have been a while since I last did one.  So why am I frustrated you ask (or are not asking)?  To be honest, it was something I read from someone I used to follow on Twitter.  Once I get into explaining things you’ll see why I said “used to follow”. Continue reading

TSA…No, the Other TSA

For the record, I’m not referring to the Transportation Safety Administration.  I am actually referring to the clan I am a part of on Destiny called, The Strangers Army.  With the Taken King being released today I’m enjoying that, and enjoying the conversation amongst the clan about all the new content.  I know I’ve mentioned them before in past posts, but I don’t think I ever truly expressed how much I enjoy that place.  So I’m going to dedicate a short post to my ongoing time there, sort of as a thank you for letting me call it my metaphorical home in Destiny.

Let me give you a brief run down of my history with clans and why at first I was against them, and not considering joining one for Destiny.  My first ever clan I joined was a semi-active and fairly sized clan back in the days of Halo 3.  The Art of War had about 180 members and its prime, it was a rather nice place to consider my first clan.  I didn’t have Xbox Live at the time so I wasn’t playing with any of my “clan mates” when I was in TAoW; however I did make an impression with the admins and eventually became part of the moderation staff.  I thought that was really cool since I couldn’t play online with them yet I was still given the chance to help out more.  Shortly after that we started holding contests for promotions, people were getting mad at who was winning these contests (can’t say I blame them honestly) and I decided to part ways with them.  Drama was not what I wanted from a clan.

Pro-Tip:  Never, ever hold contests where the winner is promoted within your clan ranks.  Stupid idea and never works out.

Continue reading